(HELP PLEASE) Should I Be Worried? Cuz i am really worrying about it...?

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Ok heres the story. I took this girl out like three times already alright. We are not officially dating yet but ive taken out to dinner/movie, haunted house place, my house to hang out n watch movies play videogames. She knows i like her and she likes me too but she still wants to go slow and get to know the real me more cuz when she first met me she said i wasnt the same she said i was kinda mean but now ive changed alot and she wants to get to know the real me more anyway we really have a great vibe. so this girl has alot of guy friends okay she told me that once. and she hasnt had a bf for yr n half. SHe said she likes to be friends wit guys cuz they dont start drama. anyway theres sum othr guy that works in the library wit her n she came up to me one day and started askin me questions about pot n stuff cuz i told her i used to do it but she always told me she wanted to try it and shes askin me all this stuff n i said why u gona try it she said yea maybe fri i just wana try it once to say i did it i said with who she said this kid name rob he works here he said he has some so idk his last name but i might go ovr his house wit his rommates and try it i said oh well who is this kid shes like hes just a friend he wrks here. i didnt like this so i started questioning her about him i said so wait who is this kid. shes like just a kid i met here while workin shes like i think he likes me but idk. i said well do u like him she said no not like that. i said oh ok. then she ended up not doing it cuz she got scared and just went ovr there and watched movies wit him n his roomates. i said how many times have u hung out wit him she was like ive hung out wit him once b4 but thats it. Then when she came ovr my house i was getting worried cuz i saw her texting i saw who she was txtn n i said who u txtn n i said why u txtn that kid shes like were friends n said oh ok n shes like is that ok i said yea. i questioned her again about him another day n said alright is there anything goin on between u and that kid she was like is this cuz i was txtn him the other night i said yea shes lke no i told u i have alot of guy friends were just friends i said alright im sorry and i said alright i wont get mad at u about this again i know ur just friends i wont bring it up again unless u do.



but im worried about this like that she talks to him about me or whatever idk. n yesturday she said to me i might be goin to joes crab shack wit rob n his roomates thurs nite. i said why shes like cuz ive nvr been there. n i said y u tellin me this. shes like cuz i thought u said u wuldnt get mad i said no im not gettn mad y u think i am she was like idk n i said im not i said its ok i said i know ur just friends shes like ok n i said im glad u told me shes like y n i said cuz ur just lettin me know ur keppin me informed if u ever do hang wit him and i said it makes me know that its nothing and ur friends right? she said yea . so idk im just worried hes tryna creep on her which i know he is. ive seen him too hes not even like a good lookin kid. n i know when they txt i know he txts her first. cuz she said she thinks he likes her and also i told her i quit pot like a couple yrs ago n said ur not gona hold that against me cuz i smoke pot she said no as long as u dont do it anymore i said yea i dont. and this rob kid does smoke pot. so do u think its all good even though he txts her alot n shes a nice girl so ya know idk i can see why she has alot of guy friends but i just hate it that shes txts him bak and talks wit him like i hate this kid should i be worried and keep questining her about it or will that scare her awayor should i just show her im not bothered by it so that she can accept me as her bf one day hopefully so shell c im not too over protective. I guess its good in a way cuz his roomates are there too when they hang out but idk im still mad i wana kill this kid i hate him i want him gone!Should i be worried what shuld i do(HELP PLEASE) Should I Be Worried? Cuz i am really worrying about it...?
honestly bro shes looking for a friend that she can have a long relationship with, dont force a girl on you man play the field and time will come. Keep being friends with her and dont say anything about going out with her, she obviously isnt ready yet give it time. same thing happend to me and she just wanted to get to know me(HELP PLEASE) Should I Be Worried? Cuz i am really worrying about it...?
I think there are essentially two issues here:

1. You like the girl much more than she likes you - you'd like to get romantic and she's not bothered;

2. The girl is paying attention to texts instead of paying attention to you.



Many people read and send texts when they are with someone but it's very rude and thoughtless if that person is thereby left "alone".



She'll get to know "the real you" more slowly if she's spending time with other people. Basically, 1 and 2 above are related in that she doesn't seem to be romantically interested in you. If she was, she'd be your girlfriend already. People do what they want, what they feel they want to do. If she wanted to throw her arms around you and share passionate kisses then she would.



In your shoes, I'd look for someone else. If she has undiscovered feelings then she'll discover them very quickly. I doubt it. I think you're just company - and maybe the occasional free meal?



Go find someone who wants you.